Jakarta -
Bagi beberapa pasangan, melontarkan
ucapan manis masih menjadi hal yang canggung dilakukan. Mereka memilih untuk memperlihatkan rasa sayang lewat perbuatan. Apakah Bunda dan Ayah termasuk di antaranya?
Namun tak ada salahnya lho Bunda dan Ayah mulai saling mengirim
ucapan manis. Menurut penelitian yang dimuat dalam jurnal
SAGE, mengirim pesan teks secara spontan membantu menyampaikan rasa kehadiran yang berkelanjutan dalam kehidupan pasangan.
Perasaan bahwa pembicaraan dapat dilakukan kapan saja dan dari jauh mengomunikasikan rasa kedekatan dan membantu membangun rasa ruang bersama.
Mengutip
Very Well Mind, Bunda dan Ayah bisa mengirim pesan teks yang menunjukkan apresiasi atau bisa juga sekali-sekali diberi bumbu ucapan menggoda. Sementara itu, bagi Bunda yang Ayah yang terbiasa bercakap lewat telepon, bisa juga melakukan hal serupa guna membangun keintiman bersama.
Mengirim teks seperti ucapan manis memiliki manfaat positif bagi pasangan. (Foto: iStock) |
Tak punya bahan
ucapan manis untuk diberikan pada pasangan? Bunda dan Ayah bisa tiru lirik lagu-lagu yang pernah dibawakan oleh salah seorang penyanyi paling romantis di dunia Frank Sinatra dikutip dari berbagai sumber.
1. You are all I long for. All I worship and adore. In other words, please be true. In other words, I love you. -
Fly Me to the Moon2. Yes, you're lovely, with your smile so warm. And your cheeks so soft. There is nothing for me but to love you. And the way you look tonight. -
The Way You Look Tonight3. My funny Valentine, sweet comic Valentine. You make me smile with my heart. Your looks are laughable. Unphotographable. Yet you're my favorite work of art. -
My Funny Valentine4. Why do stars fall down from the sky. Every time you walk by? Just like me, they long to be. Close to you. -
Close to You5. I thank my lucky star every day, that you are as you are every day. The years may come, the years may go, if we're still here, I'll say. I fall in love with you every day. -
I Fall in Love with You Everyday6. Let's fall in love. Why shouldn't we fall in love? Our hearts are made of it. Let's take a chance, why be afraid of it? -
Let's Fall In Love7. The stars are aglow and tonight how their light sets me dreaming. My love, do you know that your eyes are like stars brightly beaming? I bring you and I sing you a moonlight serenade.-
Moonlight Serenade8. The summer wind came blowin' in from across the sea. It lingered there, to touch your hair and walk with me. All summer long we sang a song and then we strolled that golden sand. Two sweethearts and the summer wind. -
Summer Wind9. Something in your eyes was so inviting. Something in your smile was so exciting. Something in my heart. Told me I must have you. -
Strangers In The Night10. You walked into my lonely world, what peace of mind your smile unfurled. Yes and because of you, my love, my wishful dream came true, my love. -
You, My Love
Bunda juga bisa simak rahasia rumah tangga tetap harmonis ala Oka Antara dan istri dalam video berikut:
(som/rdn)